I know these things, and yet I treat good people like an enemy everyday by causing them grief and miscommunicating. I complain to others about problems they can't change. It only makes those around me feel bad. I tell my family about people who have yelled at me. All I am doing, really, is yelling at them. It does no good. Why do I keep beating up on those closest to me? Maybe I know not to hate my enemy, but I need to learn how not to hurt those I love. A good starting point.